The first thing I noticed about her was her skin. It was alabaster, smooth like butter and translucent. Sitting in meetings with her at the prominent literary agency where we both worked left me feeling weak. She was 40 and had been married for 10 years, with three children under the age of Except one night, I did. But she gave nothing away. No odd winks or lingering favouritism, just an aloof air of power. Our team were out celebrating a victory signing, when I first felt her eyes on me from across the table. I instantly assumed I must be getting the wrong end of the stick. But several glasses of wine later, my mouth was on hers and she was pushing me against the bathroom wall, as we clumsily tumbled in a stall, fumbling with our belt buckles.
Daily Mirror agony aunt Coleen Nolan offers some advice to a man who's distraught after finding out wife is having an affair with a woman from work - and isn't prepared to give her up. I have been married for 18 months and only found out recently that my wife has been having a lesbian affair with a colleague. Only you can decide whether to stay and work through it and accept this arrangement or whether to leave. But you have to think about yourself and what this arrangement could do to your self-esteem and long-term happiness. From secret feuds and sexy scandals to the biggest showbiz headlines - we're serving up a daily dose of gossip. Get the inside scoop on all your favourite celebs with our daily newsletter delivered straight to your inbox for free. You can sign up here. You have to ask yourself if you could really be fine with this arrangement and not sad, resentful, angry and jealous. Good luck.
F or Carren Strock, the revelation came when she was She had met her husband — "a terrific guy, very sweet" — at high school when she was 16, had been married to him for 25 years, had two dearly loved children, and what she describes as a "white-picket-fence existence" in New York. Then, one day, sitting opposite her best friend, she realised: "Oh my God. I'm in love with this woman.
Do lesbians ever fall for women who are married to men, and do straight married women fall for lesbians? All the time. And if that's you, be prepared for things to get hard. Don't expect it to be easy or for the wife to depart her marriage without a lot of hesitating, questioning and making false promises along the way. She and her husband have a life — and probably a house and kids and bills and extended family — together. Who is responsible for this messy situation and are there reasons why married straight women are attracted to women? Sometimes it's the wife.