I don't think we are going to end up being friends but I'll get over that. I am married to an ER doc and agree that having your own life, being independent, and not going into the relationship with any preconceived notions is what makes it work for us. If it seems one is unable to find a spouse within the church, which commandment do you keep.




Mormonism is an all-in religion. A lot of people are religious. However, from what I have seen he has all of the qualities I want from someone long-term. I agree with Rachel- this is not what I signed up for. Mormon girls are the best, and you are pretty lucky. I then asked some questions about some of the essays, and her answer to everything is "because god. Her church is more important to her than you are ever will beplain and simple. Then she took a vacation to Utah and in her letter to me she stated that she had seen the Temple, and I never heard from her again. Know that you are playing a game aka dating mormon girls that has low odds of success. Something that will help you stand out is a strong masculine frame.
Its always for his prior commitment that we always end up cancelling our plan of being together. Don't put them through that either. I can pray for and with my youngest daughter and bless her thru prayer. Yes, anyone crazy enough to believe the story of gold plates should be able to rationalize a brown rock.
Mormonism is not meant to be a casual part of a Mormon's life but it is meant to be the center. I know, there is a world, which I have traveled, that have a life so much more difficult than I. But of course this does not mean that mixed religion children cannot grow up to be LDS stalwarts. You will be expected to condone but not attend events in the temple to which you will not be granted access. I won't break his heart not after all the faith he has in me. I also just care about him enough and admire his reasons for becoming a doctor that I'm willing to make sacrifices so that his life is easier. Do you really love him, honey. Plus I just quit my medical interpreting job last month. Please girls advice me because this is already really overwhelming.